How to Catch a Liar

Are you being lied to? Find out how you can tell.

1. How is the person speaking?
Although a change in voice can be the tip-off to a lie, experts say that to be sure, you should also pay attention to a person's speech rate and breathing pattern -- if either speeds up or slows down, chances are you're not hearing the whole truth.

2. What is the person saying?
Liars tend to avoid exclusionary words like "but," "nor," "except," and "whereas," because they have trouble with complex thought processes. Liars are less likely to use the words "I," "me," and "mine." In their attempts to distance themselves psychologically from their tall tales, liars will tend to communicate using fewer personal pronouns.

3. Is his face giving it away?
You may think disguising your true feelings is easily accomplished with the help of a smile, but the expressions that flash across your face will give away what you're really thinking -- whether you know it or not. Experts advise paying close attention to the micro-expressions that a face can't hide. These clues are often so difficult to detect that even trained experts have trouble discerning them.

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4. How is the person smiling?
A smile can sometimes mask a person's true feelings. Pay close attention to how a person smiles as well as other facial movements. You may be able to detect the emotions he or she is trying to hide -- such as fear, anger, and disgust. A true smile will incorporate both a person's lips and eyes.

5. Does the body language follow the story?
It's more important to examine a person's entire demeanor, as there's no one feature that's apt to give away a liar. Honesty is characterized by features that are in sync with one another -- so besides posture, note the fit between face, body, voice, and speech.
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6. Is your subject behaving uncharacteristically?
Experts believe changes in a person's baseline -- how she generally conducts herself -- are worthy of your attention. You should weigh rate of speech, tone of voice, posture, and hand gestures against what you know, along with the context of the situation.

7. Is the question simple or embarrassing?
It's normal for someone to look away when asked a difficult question. But when someone avoids your gaze when asked a simple question, you should be suspicious.

Adapted from Quiz: Can You Spot a Liar?

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如何抓住一個騙子
你被欺騙了嗎？找出可以告訴你如何。

1。人是如何說話？
雖然在聲音的變化可以是尖的謊言，專家說，可以肯定的，你也應該注意一個人的講話速度和呼吸模式 - 無論是速度或減慢，機會是你不聽的全部真相。
2。什麼是人說的嗎？
騙子往往以避免像“，但”也不“”除“和”，而“排他性的話，因為他們有麻煩與複雜的思維過程。騙子是不太可能使用的話，“我”，“我”和“地雷”。在他們的企圖撇清他們高大的故事從心理上，騙子往往會使用較少的人稱代詞。
3。是他的臉了嗎？
你可能想掩飾自己的真實感受是很容易的微笑幫助完成，但在您的臉上閃爍的表達會放棄你真正思考 - 無論你知道與否。專家提醒密切關注的微表情，臉上無法掩飾的。這些線索往往難以察覺，即使是訓練有素的專家有麻煩挑剔他們。
加：13就是你的調酒師不會告訴你
4。微笑的人是如何？
一個微笑，有時可以掩蓋一個人的真實感受。密切關注如何一個人微笑以及其他面部動作。你也許能夠探測到的情緒，他或她正在試圖隱藏 - 如恐懼，憤怒和厭惡。一個真正的微笑，將包括一個人的嘴唇和眼睛。
5。身體語言，後續的故事嗎？
這是更重要的是考察一個人的整個神態，還有一個特點是容易放棄一個騙子。誠實是與另一個同步的功能，特點 - 所以除了姿勢，注意臉，身體，聲音和語音之間的契合。
遊：20的秘密你的服務員不會告訴你
6。一反常態，表現的主題？
專家認為，在一個人的基線的變化 - 她一般如何進行自己 - 值得您的關注。你知道什麼，你應該權衡講話速度，聲調，姿勢，手勢，隨著形勢的背景下。
7。是簡單的問題或尷尬？
這是正常的人，看遠時問一個難以回答的問題。但是，當有人避免你的視線時，問一個簡單的問題，你應該可疑。
適應測驗：你能否找出一個騙子？

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