We are all worried about our families, whereas we should be worried about ourselves. This is not selfishness, but an understanding that when you help yourself to become better and better, you can help your families deal with life better and better.
Taken from The Spider's Web, vol. 3, p. 46 –Rev. Chariji
Whatever they are or they do, they are your parents and you should respect and love them. More than anyone else they need your love and I am sure you will be able to go beyond your present feelings and get to their hearts.
Taken from The Spider's Web, vol. 3, p. 38 –Rev. Chariji